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We only lasted a couple more months before the stress of seeing each other while she was still married overwhelmed us….. I just didn’t want to get into the whole “I’m in the process” conversation.

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Today’s quotes came from the following letters Wise Readers generously shared privately and gave permission to re-print: (Letters were edited for length, and some details were changed to protect anonymity.) From a man: …. The most difficult part is deciding whether or not to tell potential dates about my “I’m almost officially divorced” status. I met this really great guy about 6 months after my separation.

We dated for a couple months before she told me she was married but didn’t wear a ring because she felt divorce was imminent. From a woman: I [married young and am now separated at age 27]. I mean, I don’t think I need to tell a man when he just asks for my number that I am in the process of being divorced. At first I wasn’t too interested in him but I went on a date anyways and simply told him that I was divorced. I knew that when I said “I’m divorced” he thought that it was official…

I needed to be there 100% for the kids and myself, and new romantic partners, whether they know it or not, are just as needy as a new pet.

You have to have the time and energy (and inclination) to work at a relationship. If you were madly in love, knew his circumstances better and felt good about them, the divorce was definitely finalizing soon, and somehow you’d found ways to mitigate the Stress, then I might advise you differently.

I was in my late 30’s and unprepared to spend the rest of my life waiting for him to let go as I watched the good men snapped up by other, younger, women….” As you’ve found, Dan, some of the not-quite-divorced lie to get a little contact.

They might fear rejection; they may not have thought through the consequences.But still, it’s misleading: “I knew that when I said “I’m divorced” he thought that it was official…I just didn’t want to get into the whole “I’m in the process” conversation.“ Unsurprisingly, some folks are unwilling to extend their emotional exile.Maybe they just want fun, sex, and a break from the bleakness.Then: Dan, you don’t want to date the married, so don’t. Half the men who re-nup do so in about three years—leaving little time to bound at all once you factor in time to meet, court, and commit.

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